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    I love this kid. She’s fourteen today and I can’t decide if I should beam with pride or hide myself in the closet and drown in my sorrows while eating Cheetos and Oreos.

    Rebecca just attended her orientation for High School last Friday and it really hit me that I have 4 years left with her. 4 years. Make them count keeps repeating over and over in my head like a broken record.

    My heart and pride for Rebecca can easily be summed up in this post that I just wrote a couple of weeks ago. So tonight I asked Rebecca to help tell me the 14 things she thinks you should know about her. At first I got an eye roll, but when her siblings were going to bed and she realized that this meant time alone with her mom and dad without competition, she was game.
     

    14 things you should know about me by Rebecca

     
    I am shy around strangers, but goofy and loud with my friends.

    Don’t ask me to tell you my friend’s secrets. I won’t tell you. I am pretty loyal and nothing hurts me more than people who betray others. Nothing.

    I thought picture taking was stupid until my mom showed me Instagram. Now, I pose. A lot.
     

     
    I have size 9.5 shoes and got caught borrowing my mom’s shoes for school. My favorites were her canvas and red TOMS.

    I love to shop. I love Forever 21, Vans shoe store, Bath and Body Works, and Claire’s.

    I love food. Period. I can’t tell you my favorites but I can tell you that I don’t like dark chocolate candies, onions in my salad, and tomatoes. If it doesn’t contain those, then I’ll have seconds please. My grandpa understands my love of food. We ate Eegees and Dairy Queen in the same hour.

    I love my sisters and brother, but they have their moments. Samantha prefers Emily at times and that hurts my feelings. I get it though – Emily is pretty cool.

    I am loved. I have a dad who doesn’t have to say I’m his biologically, but he chooses to. That’s really cool.

    I loved the Hunger Games series and I’m totally Team Peeta. My friends are Team Gale, but it’s only because he is hot in the movie. In the book, he seems like a loser. :)

    I’m excited to go to Wyldlife camp next month in California. This will be my third year and I’m looking forward to the rope course, skits, and the giant mud pit.

    I like to use the Emoji app on my phone. I can’t ever end a text to my mom, dad, or my friends without at least 2 emojis. I don’t use LOL at all, but I make up for it with LOTS of HaHaHas and fun smiley faces or other emojis. My mom had no idea they were called Emoji’s.

    I love my swim team and my coach Lindsay.

    I love to have my back scratched. Bubbie’s nails are the best.

    I think I will get married at age 23. My husband will be tall, a dark blonde, athletic, and probably be a lawyer. I plan on having 3 kids.

    As I am typing this, Rebecca is laying on top of the kitchen counter resting her head on a watermelon while she is dictating to me and texting her friends simultaneously. We made chocolate cupcakes with chocolate frosting to take to her swim team.

    Yes, I’m beaming with pride at her accomplishments, but if you took all that away, I still really like her as a person.

    And now that I’m done typing, I’m thinking it’s going to be a Cheetos and Oreo kind of day.

    Blessings sweet friends – Jenny

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    18 Comments

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    Heather

    Honey, I am right there with you, covered in cheese dust and chocolate crumbs.

    Elijah will be 14 on June 18th; he starts 9th grade in August. When we attended high school orientation a few months back, I was nauseated at the thought that we only have four years left. I remember myself how fast those four years go…I can hardly stand the thought.

    I love this post; Rebecca is a doll!

    5 June 2012 at 2:58 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      Yes, you do get it. This past month I’ve felt all my children growing up more than ever. I asked Sam at the dinner table to stop growing, She smiled and said, “No silly momma.”
      I know it sounds silly, but I love their ages right now and would be content for them to just stop.

      5 June 2012 at 5:26 am Reply
    SusanB

    As a mom who only has three months left with her youngest, I echo your thoughts of “make them count”. It’s not all bad though; my oldest will be a college junior this fall and while I miss our mother/child relationship (though she’ll always be my girl), there’s a lot of joy and fun in the mother/adult relationship. In many ways we are closer now than before and I’m looking forward to experiencing this with my youngest too. Happy birthday to your sweet girl!

    5 June 2012 at 5:29 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      Thanks Susan. I love hearing stories like this. I surely pray for a great relationship with all my children as they grow into adults. Just pulls at the heartstrings along the way.

      5 June 2012 at 6:40 pm Reply
    Melissa

    I SO get this. Mine turned 14 last month. I blogged about it here: http://sendingcupcakelove.wordpress.com/2012/05/28/fourteen/
    He is my only one, so the pressure to “make it count” seems tremendous right now. Happy Birthday to Rebecca!!!

    5 June 2012 at 5:33 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      Melissa – thanks for sharing your beautiful story of your son Michael. It was beautiful.

      5 June 2012 at 6:39 pm Reply
    Marilyn Johnson

    I love this post! She sounds like such a fun girl who really has it all together! The next 4 years will go so fast. Savor every moment.

    5 June 2012 at 5:37 am Reply
    gail

    Happy birthday to you both!

    5 June 2012 at 5:42 am Reply
    Beth Cole

    What a great way to honor your daughter’s birthday! Your description of her lying on the counter with a watermelon pillow is priceless. Enjoy every minute you have with her. :)

    5 June 2012 at 5:46 am Reply
    Julie McD

    Love it!

    Happy Birthday, Rebecca! You totally rock!

    Jenny, so hoping your cheetos aren’t soggy from tears and that your Oreos are double-stuffed dunked in an ice cold glass of milk..shared with Rebecca, of course!

    5 June 2012 at 8:23 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      No oreos and cheetos as I truly am trying to eat better :) but I got off work early to take cupcakes to her swim team this evening. She is really excited.

      5 June 2012 at 4:32 pm Reply
    Jen Kinkade

    You’ve done a great job, Mom!! Celebrate her and all she has become! True, the hardest part is letting go…but I have a secret…it gets BETTER!! ;)
    xo

    5 June 2012 at 8:50 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      I really do believe that Jen. I’m just at one of those points with all 4 kids where I really like all of them at their individual stages at the same time, so a part of me wants to freeze this. But who knows, perhaps it will indeed get better.

      5 June 2012 at 4:31 pm Reply
    Nikki

    She sounds like a great kid. Happy Birthday, Rebecca! My first (and most likely only) daughter will be born in 4 months and I know I have an Oreo-fest in my future. Sigh.

    5 June 2012 at 10:06 am Reply
      Jenny
      Jenny

      Oh just wait Nikki. Your heartstrings will be pulled more than you can ever imagine. But all of it, even the bittersweet moments are 100% worth it.

      5 June 2012 at 4:30 pm Reply
    Kerry K.

    Happy, Happy Birthday Rebecca!! I love learning more and more about you and hope to enjoy you in person one day! Jenny, you have a lot to be proud of!! (enjoy your cheetos and oreos! I’m right there with you – though a few years behind. It goes too fast) Love, K

    5 June 2012 at 9:00 pm Reply
    Christy Lindvig

    Oh Jenny, I am right there with you! Can’t believe our girls will be in high school in a short couple of months. I am so happy that our girls met at MTA last year and will be starting this new adventure together. Now we have to start watching out for the boys!

    6 June 2012 at 10:02 am Reply
    Courtney

    Jenny – talked to you about blogging at the swim meet. I’ve started and someone nominated me for a little blogger award. It’s kind of like a chain letter thing. You’re supposed to share the love – so I’ve nominated you! Check out my page for details http://www.mommydds.com/the-mommydds-fitness-challenge-the-truth-about-swimming-workouts/

    6 June 2012 at 9:18 pm Reply

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